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When you need to share a secret
How to have a difficult conversation with an intimate partner Good communication in relationships is something we desire but it’s not always something that we start with or have the tools to create. Many people find themselves in committed relationships before...
HSV and Dating
“Date your own” needs to go Whether you’re recently diagnosed or have been living with HSV (herpes simplex virus) for a long time, you are not alone. This can be a difficult thing to experience but you are in good company and it doesn’t have to impact your...
The Silent Sufferers of Toxic Masculinity
When I began preparing to work as a phone sex operator, I had an idea of what my clients would ask of me. The vast majority of the clients I serve are male identifying and probably cisgender. I market myself as a Femme Dom and a Mistress. For those who don’t know what...
Don’t Yuck My Yum
Can Sex Shaming Lead to Infidelity? How difficult is it for you to talk to your partner about your desires? Is talking about sex something you feel completely comfortable doing with them? If it isn’t comfortable, why is that? Have you been shamed by them for sharing a...
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