by admin | Oct 24, 2024 | Boundaries, Dating, Prioritize Yourself, Sex, Uncategorized
Just in case you’re wondering if it’s possible, or acceptable, to envision what kind of D/s you’d like to have in the future… Absol- fucking- utely!!!!! If you are on the right side of the slash- the submissive- you might get twisted into thinking that you HAVE to...
by admin | Oct 22, 2024 | Boundaries, Dating, Prioritize Yourself, Sex, Uncategorized
Are you someone who listens to your gut? How in tune are you to your nervous system and how someone makes you feel? Are you paying attention to the way your body reacts to them? Or is the lure of submission so strong that you’re shapeshifting to get them to want you?...
by admin | Oct 22, 2024 | Boundaries, Dating, Prioritize Yourself, Sex, Uncategorized
I realized that I was craving a break from life. My most recent relationship had fallen far short of the D/s I began to crave and often felt like I was often mothering another child. As you can imagine, that was the last thing I wanted out of a relationship. Financial...
by admin | Aug 6, 2024 | Boundaries, Dating, Prioritize Yourself, Sex, Uncategorized
If there is one thing to know about me it’s that I am NOT a “let the chips fall where they may” kinda person. Even though I like to live my life doing things a little differently, I do not “let” things happen to me. I shift and evolve but I typically do so with...
by C J | Jan 9, 2024 | Dating
In my early forties I came to the realization that my marriage wasn’t going to last. After several years of child bearing and rearing, my desire for intimacy was raging but my husband wasn’t up for it. I oscillated between advocating for myself and taking solace in...
by admin | Jul 31, 2023 | Dating
“Date your own” needs to go Whether you’re recently diagnosed or have been living with HSV (herpes simplex virus) for a long time, you are not alone. This can be a difficult thing to experience but you are in good company and it doesn’t have to impact your...
