by admin | Apr 15, 2024 | Uncategorized
Introduction Are you feeling alone, isolated and touch hungry? Well, you’re not the only one! A Harvard survey conducted in 2020 found that 61% of adults from 18 to 25 reported feeling serious loneliness, compared to 39% across the general population. Social isolation...
by admin | Apr 15, 2024 | Uncategorized
Introduction There are many reasons why you might be rushing into a relationship too quickly. One potential reason is a need to share resources. Financial instability, childcare and other burdens have you feeling like it’s necessary to partner up so you have someone...
by admin | Apr 11, 2024 | Uncategorized
Introduction Dating can be exhausting! It can feel like you’re in a perpetual race against time and the finish line keeps moving ahead and out of reach. It’s common for people to rush into relationships when they have fear of missing out on their chance for love....
by admin | Apr 10, 2024 | Uncategorized
Tools for Your Dating Journey Introduction “That’s it, I give up!” How many times have you said this about dating? I know you’re tired of feeling frustrated and disillusioned with dating because I have experienced it myself. Trying to find a partner can seem like an...
by C J | Jan 9, 2024 | Dating
In my early forties I came to the realization that my marriage wasn’t going to last. After several years of child bearing and rearing, my desire for intimacy was raging but my husband wasn’t up for it. I oscillated between advocating for myself and taking solace in...
by C J | Dec 21, 2023 | Inspiration
Hello, I’m CJ, a certified life and sex coach with a passion for living life coloring outside the lines. Today, I want to share the story of what led me to coaching and mentoring. At age 44 I separated from my husband and the father of my kids. We had both come...
by C J | Dec 19, 2023 | Boundaries
Learning the Importance of Honoring Myself: The Monday after Thanksgiving in 1999, I pointed my sun-stained burgundy Honda Accord westward towards Los Angeles. I was leaving the city of Chicago for good. I had intentionally looked for work in L.A. to reunite with...
by admin | Aug 1, 2023 | Communication
How to have a difficult conversation with an intimate partner Good communication in relationships is something we desire but it’s not always something that we start with or have the tools to create. Many people find themselves in committed relationships before...
by admin | Jul 31, 2023 | Dating
“Date your own” needs to go Whether you’re recently diagnosed or have been living with HSV (herpes simplex virus) for a long time, you are not alone. This can be a difficult thing to experience but you are in good company and it doesn’t have to impact your...
by admin | May 9, 2023 | Sex
When I began preparing to work as a phone sex operator, I had an idea of what my clients would ask of me. The vast majority of the clients I serve are male identifying and probably cisgender. I market myself as a Femme Dom and a Mistress. For those who don’t know what...
